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The 19 Best Julian of Norwich Quotes
Julian of Norwich’s popularity has skyrocketed over the past century. Yet she spent most of her life literally entombed in her...
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The Untapped Goldmine of Etty Hillesum that Virtually No One Knows About
Etty Hillesum doesn't fit in boxes. Which might be why I'm so magnetically drawn to her. People who defy categories intrigue me. Somehow...
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Trauma and Well-Meaning Relatives
An Open Letter on the Occasion of my Wedding I blinked at my latest text messages. Within the past 12 hours, I had received two more...
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The Top 4 Books I Recommend in Spiritual Direction
If you’re like me, you’re always hungry to grow. Whether that means devouring podcasts, discovering a new framework to use for my...
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9 Ways to Know if You’re Growing Spiritually
Elia had big desires. Like many of the people I walk with in spiritual direction, she was hungry to learn. She wanted homework. Book...
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You'll never make a decision without doing this.
Lately I’ve discovered that I, and a number of my clients, have been struggling with existential FOMO. FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) is...
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Prayer and Orgasm Have More in Common Than You Think
The Mystics' Secret to Bliss I can’t remember the first time it happened in prayer. But I remember the first conversation I tried to have...
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The Surprising Reason Why You Don't Feel God
Let’s be honest: meditation is not always sunshine and roses. If you’ve ever tried to sustain a spiritual practice, you’ve probably...
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The World the Mystics Inhabited
Ineffable Longings, Incarnation, and the Sacramental Imagination I received a letter the other day that read: "I've been turning to the...
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When Fall is Ripe with Change
I sensed it even before I opened my eyes. Somewhere between the way the cool air nibbled at my toes, and the way the crisp aerosols...
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How to Live When You’ve Been Mostly Dead
I couldn’t speak.
I was pretty sure this is what Wesley from the Princess Bride had felt like when he had been “mostly dead” all day.
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Prayer and Orgasm Have More in Common Than you Think, Part 2
3 Secrets to Divine Intimacy There are two things that are certain, besides death and taxes. That is: wherever there are people, there...
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A Surprising Spiritual Practice in Time of Pandemic
It finally got to me.
I had kept my nose above the water, for the most part.
Washed my hands. Stayed at home. Did my part.
But when I had
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He Gave Me Sickness for My Healing
Lessons from 18 Months of Stillness, Silence, and Solitude | Once upon a time, my life ended.
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I Am Dark But I Am Beautiful
What this author learned when no words came. I’ve been going through a rather apophatic period lately. The apophatic has to do with the...
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Mysticism vs. Religion - what's the difference?
Recently I was invited to participate in a gathering of young(ish) contemplatives, to dialogue together about the future of the...
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How One Simple Trip Taught me to Speak about the Ineffable
I recently had the distinct privilege of speaking to a very eclectic group in Birmingham, England. I was asked to speak to a group on...
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Feeling Stuck and Antsy? Here are 5 Ways Through.
Lately I’ve been feeling like a caged race horse. As a high achiever with a big heart and a sharp mind, I have a wide variety of dreams,...
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