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The 19 Best Julian of Norwich Quotes
Julian of Norwich’s popularity has skyrocketed over the past century. Yet she spent most of her life literally entombed in her...
Apr 5, 20224 min read


The Untapped Goldmine of Etty Hillesum that Virtually No One Knows About
Etty Hillesum doesn't fit in boxes. Which might be why I'm so magnetically drawn to her. People who defy categories intrigue me. Somehow...
Mar 22, 20225 min read


Trauma and Well-Meaning Relatives
An Open Letter on the Occasion of my Wedding I blinked at my latest text messages. Within the past 12 hours, I had received two more...
Dec 1, 20219 min read


The Top 4 Books I Recommend in Spiritual Direction
If you’re like me, you’re always hungry to grow. Whether that means devouring podcasts, discovering a new framework to use for my...
Oct 1, 20215 min read


9 Ways to Know if You’re Growing Spiritually
Elia had big desires. Like many of the people I walk with in spiritual direction, she was hungry to learn. She wanted homework. Book...
Sep 3, 20218 min read


You'll never make a decision without doing this.
Lately I’ve discovered that I, and a number of my clients, have been struggling with existential FOMO. FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) is...
Aug 5, 20215 min read


Prayer and Orgasm Have More in Common Than You Think
The Mystics' Secret to Bliss I can’t remember the first time it happened in prayer. But I remember the first conversation I tried to have...
Jul 22, 20218 min read


The Surprising Reason Why You Don't Feel God
Let’s be honest: meditation is not always sunshine and roses. If you’ve ever tried to sustain a spiritual practice, you’ve probably...
Apr 21, 20217 min read


The World the Mystics Inhabited
Ineffable Longings, Incarnation, and the Sacramental Imagination I received a letter the other day that read: "I've been turning to the...
Nov 13, 20207 min read


When Fall is Ripe with Change
I sensed it even before I opened my eyes. Somewhere between the way the cool air nibbled at my toes, and the way the crisp aerosols...
Sep 28, 20204 min read


How to Live When You’ve Been Mostly Dead
I couldn’t speak.
I was pretty sure this is what Wesley from the Princess Bride had felt like when he had been “mostly dead” all day.
Sep 6, 20207 min read


Prayer and Orgasm Have More in Common Than you Think, Part 2
3 Secrets to Divine Intimacy There are two things that are certain, besides death and taxes. That is: wherever there are people, there...
Jul 30, 20205 min read
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